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quote originally posted by public_holiday:
Thanks for all the advise.... anyway currently i already change all my password and unable to log-in. Hopefully i can control myself and not ask my agent to reset my password.
i will try to bet just thru singaporepools, as there will not be any jalan |
Hi dude .. I am suffering from emotional disorder and this is very similar to all your symptpons ...
You read my "notes" on the following and check does it tallied 80% .. if chun then cfm you get this emotional disorder in gambling liao ..
Are You Living With A Compulsive Gambler?
If you are living with a compulsive gambler, you will answer "YES" to at least six of the following questions.
1.Do you find yourself constantly bothered by every week bill settlements since you start betting?
2. Do you often away from home for long, unexplained periods of time and secretly go to betting places and make unknown to your spouses?
3. Do you ever lose time from work due to gambling?
4. Do you gamble whatever money in your hands and cannot be trusted with money?
5. Do you faithfully promise that the person who you want to borrow money that you will stop gambling; beg, plead for another chance, yet you gamble again and again?
6. Do you gamble longer than you intended to, until the last dollar is gone?
7. Do you immediately return to gambling to try to recover losses, or to win more?
8. Do you ever think that gamble will help you to get money to solve financial difficulties or have unrealistic expectations that gambling will bring the family material comfort and wealth?
9. Do you borrow money to gamble with or to pay gambling debts to cover week by week or rolling coverage?
10. Has your reputation ever suffered due to gambling, even to the extent of committing illegal acts to finance gambling?
11. Have you come to the point that your wife need to hide money from you as she need it for living and kids expenses, knowing that you and the rest of the family may go without food and clothing if you grab those money and gamble it away.
12. Do you only do the soul searching only when your "last bets" are lost and you start regret but getting very nervous and fustrated to pay the bookies every week again?
13. Do you in question hide your money like bonus just to gamble and not letting your family people knew?
14. Have you noticed a personality change in you as your gambling addict progresses year after year and you will start to compare against those have more money than you and keep saying it's unfair!!!
15. Do you in question consistently lie to cover up or deny about your gambling activities?
16. Do you use guilt induction as a method of shifting responsibilities upon other people, saying it's other people who JINXED or bring bad luck to you?
17. Your moods will swing if winning and you will think of life super meangingless when you are losing again and again, inability to control emotional about life?
18. Do you ever suffer from remorse or depression due to gambling, sometimes to the point of self-destruction and whack hard just to prove that you shouldn't or couldn't be so "SUAY" afterall, but still lose to indebt more.
19. Has the gambling ever brought you to the point of threatening to break up the family unit?
20. Do you feel that your life together is a nightmare?
You should not wait for the compulsive gambler to quit and feel remorseful as the it' a mental habit and is killing his/her brain fast. The urge of excitement will automatically come to their brains when pressing the odds and money amount thinking they will be the next lucky ones to win big bucks but it will never happen!!There are effective ways of coping with the gambling problem. By seeking help for ourselves and gaining serenity and peace of mind, we find that we are better able to cope with our problems on a day-to-day basis and in some cases motivate the gambler toward seeking help for him or herself.
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Another big huge blow is when a peron since young grow up with a compulsive gambler,compulsive gambling is a symptom of an emotional illness, characterized by low self-esteem, immaturity, instability and obsessive behavior. Because compulsive gambling is an insidious and baffling illness, some adults have difficulty deciding if they were affected by compulsive gambling during childhood. The following questions may help you to determine whether compulsive gambling affected your childhood or present life.
1. Do you obsess about money?
2. Did family activities revolve around gambling events? (sports, cards, lottery, racetracks, etc.)
3. Have you ever been missing money?
4. Have you ever paid or been asked to pay a parent's debts?
5. Do your parents often argue about money?
6. Were you forced to form an alliance with one parent against another?
7. Did you parents use you as a sounding board for their marriage?
8. Are you afraid to be alone with the gambling parent?
9. Do you feel anxious when the phone rings, mail comes or doorbell rings?
10. Do you feel responsible for the unhappiness in your home?
11. Do you confuse pity with love?
12. Have you had problems with your own compulsive behavior?
13. Do you feel more like the parent than the child?
14. Are you unable to remember all or parts of your childhood?
15. Do you care for others easily, but find it difficult to care for yourself?
16. Do you find it difficult to identify and express your feelings?
17. Do you have trouble with intimate relationships?
18. Do you lie when it would be just as easy to tell the truth?
19. Do you feel more alive in the midst of a crisis?
20. Do you think more money would solve your problems?
If you answered yes to some or all of these questions,you are having emotional and mental disorder as a compulsive gambler. Quit the habit now fast may be the right answer for you
This message was edited by RicharLaw on 31-Jan-2012 @ 3:24 PM
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